I used to be the first. I used to be a die-hard people pleaser, sometimes at the expense of loosing myself entirely.
And then my Give-A-Shit broke and I was liberated.
I may have lost a few friends at that point, but it was one of the most freeing lessons I have ever learned.
Nowadays, I have a much smaller circle of friends, but my level of self awareness and sense of worth have never been greater. It’s fucking fantastic.
So which one are you?